If it is possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.
- Romans 12:18
Headlines this week have been filled with what the Bible promised we would see repeatedly until the Lord’s return: “wars and rumors of wars.” Rockets have been fired, bombs have been dropped, military bases have been attacked, and now the world holds its breath to see if a fragile ceasefire will hold. Global peace feels like an impossible dream at the moment.
And indeed, in a world rife with division, disagreements, and discord, even interpersonal peace is elusive. “Can’t we all just get along?” is a sentiment most consider naïve rather than desirable. Realists understand that people are too different, too stubborn, and too sinful to ever coexist in perfect harmony.
The truth is, you can’t control how other people deal with you—but you can control how you deal with them. When your spouse is 99% to blame for the argument you had this morning, you can apologize for your 1%. When you and a coworker are butting heads, you can be the one to lay down your sword and pursue reconciliation. When you’ve been wronged, you can forgive unconditionally instead of waiting for the apology and the penance you feel you deserve.
Peace, in other words, is possible on your end—but only if you value it more than pride. It requires the kind of humility Christ exhibited on the cross, the willingness to put others above yourself. It means valuing love more than getting your way.
The
world will not know that kind of peace, not fully, until Christ returns. But
you, in your little pocket of influence, can give people a preview of the
kingdom to come. You can’t fix the world—but in Jesus’ name, you can bring peace
to your corner of it.