For God hath not given
us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.
- 2 Timothy 1:7
A
few weeks ago, Lindsey and I were rudely awakened by a loud, shrill chirp outside
our bedroom door. Rubbing our eyes groggily, we were still trying to figure out
where the sound was coming from when we heard it again, just as piercing as
before. It was the smoke detector, letting us know—at 3 AM—that it needed
batteries…which we didn’t have.
I
grabbed a stool and reached up to examine it, but without my contact lenses in,
it was hard to tell what I was supposed to do. I pulled the battery out, but
the chirping continued every 10 seconds ago. I could see wiring going into the
ceiling, but was hesitant to disconnect anything. Unsure what to do and getting
more frustrated by the second, I desperately searched for some button to press,
some switch to flip. The smoke detector just kept chirping every 10 seconds at
a volume and pitch that made me long for nails on a chalkboard.
Finally,
Lindsey decided she’d had enough. Practically pushing me off the stool, she
reached up and did what I’d been unwilling to do—yanked the smoke detector
straight out of the ceiling, disconnecting the wire and, yes, stopping the
chirping. The problem wasn’t really solved—the smoke detector still needed
batteries—but with one quick, violent gesture she’d found a quick fix for the
meantime.
In
life, we long for those kinds of solutions—quick, easy remedies that will wipe
away our problems, even if just for a moment, even if we have to do something we
know we shouldn’t. We know these sorts of quick fixes aren’t real solutions, we
know they’re too ugly and makeshift to really do the job. But when you’re at a
loss, when the problem seems too complicated and overwhelming to handle the
right way, you’ll settle for anything. That’s how sin creeps into your heart—it
tells you that your problems are too big to handle God’s way, that you need to
take matters into your own hands, that that the ends justify the means.
In
the face of such temptation, Scripture reminds us that God has shown us another
way. It is insecurity that pushes us toward quick fixes, it is fear that makes
us shove the better angels of our natures to the side in pursuit of some
solution, any solution. But as 2 Timothy 1:7 reminds us, the spirit God gives
us is not one of fear, but of power and love and a sound mind.
Fear
points you in the opposite direction that God does. Fear compels you to isolate
those who are different from you, but God calls you to embrace them as
neighbors. Fear prompts you to lash out at those who hurt you, but God says to seek
forgiveness and reconciliation. Fear tells you that you are on your own, but
God tells you that He is with you.
God’s
way is harder than fear’s, there’s no doubt about that. It takes more effort,
more discipline, and courage to love than it does to fear. But when you follow Him
instead of retreating into yourself, you find more than a patch for your problems,
you find true mending. In God’s way you won’t find a quick fix—by choosing love
instead of fear you’ll find an actual solution.
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