A dispute also arose
among them as to which one of them was to be regarded as the greatest. But [Jesus]
said to them, “The kings of the Gentiles lord it over them; and those in
authority over them are called benefactors. But not so with you; rather the
greatest among you must become like the youngest, and the leader like one who
serves.”
- Luke 22:24-26
If
you’ve ever talked with my son for more than five minutes, chances are you’ve
heard him excitedly say these two words: “basketball hoop!” For whatever
reason, nothing captivates him quite like the opportunity to put a ball in a basket,
even it’s just crumpled up paper in a trash can. So when the sun finally came
out earlier this week after days of cold, dreary weather, I decided it was time
for the two of us to head to the park and shoot some hoops.
Sure
enough, when we pulled into the parking lot and he saw the basketball court, he
could barely contain his excitement, running towards the court as fast as his
little legs could carry him. I handed him the ball and fully expected him to shoot
to his heart’s content. But instead he surprised me—as soon as I caught up to
him, he threw me the ball with a grin and shouted, “Daddy shoot!” And for
fifteen minutes he delightedly rebounded and passed for me, never once taking a
shot. Every time I offered him the ball he’d shake his head and tell me to
shoot, and every missed shot was rewarded with a “so close!” just as every
basket earned a cheer. As much as he loves shooting the ball himself, that
afternoon he was more than happy to just help me take the shots.
That’s
an attitude that can be hard to come by nowadays, when it often seems like the
only way to succeed is by putting yourself center stage. On social media, in the
news, and at the office you witness example after example of people who demand
all the attention, and who seem to be rewarded for doing so. Success, it can
appear, comes by taking a shot every time you get the ball.
Jesus
gives a different definition of success, saying that true greatness isn’t found
in the spotlight, but in service. He acknowledges that the world doesn’t see it
that way, that powerful people are always looking for ways to dominate and boast
over those they see as beneath them. But rather than buying into the world’s
narrative, Jesus rejects it outright, trading it for a kingdom perspective. He
encourages us to do the same.
Our
culture doesn’t offer many rewards for those who serve when they could be
striving, but Jesus says it is these kinds of disciples who are the greatest among
us. So in a self-centered world, may your life be cross-centered, more concerned
with sacrificing for others than with shoving them aside. The world says to
take every shot you get—listen instead to Jesus, and throw some passes.
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